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How To Hula Hoop: Step by Step Guide for Beginners

Last updated: July 26, 2026

If you’ve tried hula hooping and decided you simply can’t do it, I’m so glad you found us! Please don’t give up until you spend some time here at Ruby Hooping. 

Most beginners just don’t realize they are trying to learn with a hoop that is just way too small, and/or too light. There is nothing wrong with you or your body; you just need the right hoop and the right guidance! 

Let’s walk through it together, one step at a time. 

The Quick Answer: How to Hula Hoop

To hula hoop around your waist, stand inside the hoop with your feet about shoulder-width apart and hold the hoop level against your lower back. Give it a firm, flat push around your waist, using your dominant hand. Then, immediately start a steady forward-and-back or side-to-side pulsing motion to keep it moving. Keep your back straight, your movements small and measured, and your body relaxed. If the hoop falls immediately, you probably need a larger beginner hoop that rotates more slowly and gives you more time to respond. 

That’s the short version. Now let’s get into the weeds. 

Step 1: Choose the Right Beginner Hoop

The hoop you learn with usually makes the difference between feeling successful and feeling like hula hooping is impossible. 

Store-bought hoops are too small and light for an adult beginner. This includes children’s hoops as well as the ones marketed as “exercise” hoops. Because they are too small for most full grown women, they rotate extremely quickly, giving your body very little time to respond. You basically have to twerk to keep the hoop up.

Lindsay showing two different size hula hoops.

In the above picture, I’m holding hoops with 42″ and 50″ diameters. Both of these are generously sized hoops, but you can see how just an 8″ difference in diameter makes a huge difference in the size of the hoop. The first hoop I made for myself back in 2013 was a 44″ diameter, and after trying smaller crappy hoops, that first spin with it felt like magic!

Seriously, this is the part where so many beginners blame themselves when it’s really that small, cheap hoop’s fault. A large, properly weighted beginner hoop moves more slowly, gives your body more room to move and allows extra time to find the rhythm. 

Using a bigger hoop is not cheating. It’s getting the right tool for the job.

You also don’t need an extremely heavy hoop or one with “massage” ridges. A properly sized hoop for your body weighing around 1-2 pounds is much more comfortable and beneficial for learning. You can read more about hoop sizing in my article, “What Size Hula Hoop Should I Get?”

Your ideal hoop size depends on your body, experience and hooping goals, so there isn’t one universal size that works for everyone. 

Not sure what hoop you need? Take my free Hoop Finder Quiz for a personalized recommendation.

Step 2: Dress for Grip 

This is one people don’t think about, but it’s so important. When you’re first learning how to hula hoop, you must wear close-fitting, comfortable clothing that allows you to move freely.

Cotton leggings are a great choice. Shorts and a tank top work well too. 

I wouldn’t recommend anything made of slick fabrics, like spandex. The silkier the fabric, the less the hoop can grip to your body, causing the hoop to slide right down to the ground. 

Very loose clothing can also make learning harder because the folds of fabric can get in the way.

Now I’m not saying you’ll never be able to wear beautiful flowing dresses and skirts when hooping. You absolutely will, eventually!

While you’re learning, though, natural fabrics and fitted clothing make things so much easier. 

Read more here: How to Dress for Hula Hooping

Step 3: Give Yourself Plenty of Space 

Clear enough space around you for the hoop to rotate freely around your entire body. If you are hooping inside your house, move furniture, pets and anything breakable out of the way, then stretch one arm out and slowly turn in a full circle to check your surroundings.

Honestly, if you have outdoor space to hoop in, use it. If not, just make sure you don’t skip this step. Be mindful about your space before you even begin. 

Learning feels much easier when you can move naturally without worrying about hitting a lamp, knocking something over or accidentally smacking someone nearby with your hoop (by the way, this will eventually happen so warn your family now).

Step 4: Find Your Stance and Stand Tall

Stand tall with your shoulders relaxed and your feet about shoulder-width apart. Keep your knees soft rather than locked.

You can place one foot slightly in front of the other if a forward-and-back pulse feels natural. If you prefer moving side to side, keep your feet more evenly aligned. Neither stance is universally “correct”. You should try both and see which one feels more natural to you. 

Step 5: Start the Hoop Level With the Ground

Hold the hoop around your waist so it rests flat against your lower back. Check that it is parallel with the ground rather than tilted upward or downward.

Hold one side of the hoop in each hand, gently rotate your torso in the opposite direction from the way you want the hoop to travel, and then give it a firm, level push around your waist. Avoid throwing it upward or forcing it downward.

Most people have one direction that feels more natural. It is perfectly fine to begin with that direction while you learn the basic movement.

Abby standing near the beach with her beginner hoop.

Step 6: Pulse Forward and Back or Side to Side

As the hoop rotates, use a small, steady pulsing motion to keep it moving. If you chose a staggered stance, pulse your torso forward and back. If your feet are side by side, a gentle side-to-side motion may feel more natural.

Most people try to move their waist in a big circle. Don’t do that. 

Pay attention to where the hoop touches your body and give it a small push each time it makes contact. Keep the movement rhythmic and controlled rather than chasing the hoop with your whole body.

If the hoop begins to fall, try pulsing a little faster. You can also turn slowly by taking small steps in a circle, going the same direction the hoop is traveling. This buys you a little extra time to react to each rotation of the hoop. 

Try to isolate your body movements to your waist area. Excessive bouncing, stepping or bending at the knees can pull the hoop downward while you’re first learning. 

Step 7: Find Your Rhythm and Keep Practicing

One of my favorite parts of hula hooping is that music plays a huge role in the whole experience. And that starts on Day 1 when you’re first learning! Playing music with a steady beat can make it easier to find your rhythm. 

Put on one of your favorite playlists that makes you want to move, relax your body and let the pulsing motion follow the beat.

Your hoop will probably fall. It will probably fall over and over at first. That is a normal part of learning, not proof that you can’t hula hoop. Each attempt helps your brain and body understand the timing a little better. Over time, your body builds muscle memory. 

One thing that still surprises me (and delights me, honestly) about hula hoop practice is that sometimes you’ll have a session where you feel like you made no progress, but then you sleep all night and try again the next day, and you immediately notice a difference. A progression. That’s your muscle memory! It takes time, but it’s very real! 

It took me about three weeks of practicing every day to get the hang of hula hooping around my waist. This is once I got the right sized hoop for my body. With the wrong size hoop, I wouldn’t have been able to do it in three years, let alone three weeks. 

Practice for a few minutes at a time. There is no need to force long, frustrating sessions. 

Be patient, and celebrate every extra rotation as you gradually improve! 

Some people learn quickly and others need days or weeks, but both experiences are completely normal.

Why Does My Hula Hoop Keep Falling?

If your hoop drops immediately, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re doing anything wrong. Here are some things that could be going on:

  • Your hoop is too small or light. A larger beginner hoop rotates more slowly and gives you more time to respond.
  • Your starting push is tilted. Make sure the hoop begins level with the ground and leaves your hands in a flat rotation.
  • You’re moving in a large circle. Try a smaller forward-and-back or side-to-side pulse instead.
  • Your movements are too big or tense. Relax your shoulders and make the pulse smaller and steadier.
  • Your clothing is too slippery. Fitted cotton clothing gives the hoop more grip.
  • You’re giving up too quickly. Your body needs time to develop the timing and muscle memory.

 

There are so many factors at play here, that this topic warrants its own in depth blog post. For a more detailed breakdown, read Why Does My Hula Hoop Keep Falling?, my complete beginner troubleshooting guide.

Common Beginner Questions

Can anyone learn to hula hoop?

Yes! You can learn to hula hoop around your waist as long as you have the right sized hoop, the right guidance and enough practice. Everyone has their own personal way of moving, so the technique or timing that works immediately for one person may take longer for another. 

There are also tons of other moves you can learn that don’t involve waist hooping, so even if you can’t do that, there is still plenty of room for you in the hula hooping universe. 

Needing a larger hoop, adapting the movement or learning at your own pace does not make you less of a hooper. 

How long does it take to learn?

Some beginners can keep the hoop up within their first few attempts, while others practice for days or weeks before it clicks. Your hoop size, previous experience, coordination and practice all affect the timeline. 

Short, consistent practice sessions are usually more helpful than one long and frustrating session. You can read more in depth on this topic, and get a ton of encouragement as well, on my article “How Long Does It Take To Get Good at Hula Hooping”. 

Which direction should I hula hoop?

Start with whichever direction feels most natural. Many people find that one direction is noticeably easier, and there is nothing wrong with learning that way first. 

For me personally, I’m left handed, and I prefer to hoop left to right. Most right handed hoopers hoop right to left, but everyone is different. 

Once you feel comfortable keeping the hoop moving in your most natural direction, you should also practice your opposite direction! This will help develop your core muscles evenly. 

Should I use a heavy hula hoop?

No, you do not need an extremely heavy hoop to learn how to hula hoop. A properly sized beginner hoop should be the correct diameter for your body and have just enough weight to create steady momentum without pounding against your body. 

I recommend avoiding excessively heavy hoops, hard massage ridges or any products that cause severe pain and bruising. 

The diameter of your hoop is the most important factor to consider. 

How often should a beginner practice?

Try practicing for about five to ten minutes at a time, 4-5 days a week. As you begin to feel the movements click, you’ll naturally start hooping for longer periods of time at each session! Before you know it, you’ll be hooping for an hour, drenched in sweat, and you haven’t even noticed how much time has gone by. 

Is hula hooping supposed to hurt?

No! You should stop if the hoop causes pain, significant bruising, dizziness or unusual discomfort. Check your hoop’s weight and construction, shorten your practice session and give your body time to recover. If pain continues or you have an existing injury or medical concern, speak with a healthcare professional before continuing. 

Ready to Start Your Hooping Journey?

You don’t need coordination, rhythm, curvy hips, or to be a certain age or size to become a hooper. All you need is the desire to do so and a hoop that is the right size for your body. 

Need the right hoop? Take the free Hoop Finder Quiz for a personalized recommendation based on your body, experience and goals.

Already have a hoop and want step-by-step instruction? Join the Six-Week Beginner Hula Hoop Challenge and learn with supportive lessons designed for all bodies.

Pippin at the Ruby Retreat in 2019.

6 Responses

  1. Thanks for the great tips! I’m just starting to hoop and I was wondering if you knew any website where I could buy some decorative tapes for my hoop. I’m looking for some tapes that add a little grip to it, too.
    Thanks again and happy hooping!

  2. These tips are great! Thanks for taking the time to write it out, I haven’t found anything like this ~ it’s awesome!

  3. Lovely description and great writing for anyone who wants to start out hula hooping. I’m a dancer and I love rytmic belly dance like styles more than anything. And I want to larn to hula dance.
    This information and vivid description of how to technique your hoop is amazing. It has helped me so much 🙂
    I’m so grateful for your share!

    Bless!

  4. Thank you for the tips, I’m new to hula hooping. Just started this week! I’m laughing at my mistakes. Loved your article, and it’s so encouraging.

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